About a year ago, I bought this gigantic laminated map at Costco to hang in Teigue's room. My original purpose was to show, with push pins and embroidery thread, all the road trips and places Teigue has been in his 4 little years. It was fun fo rthe kids to point at the places on the map and ask, "Have I been there?" "Yes, see the pin? You've been to Tucson." "Here?" "See all those pins? That was the road trip we took to see Danpa in Indianapolis and then Grandma in Akron." On and on it went like this for a few weeks until the kids finally understood the places that had pins meant they had been there. Then they started to remember the places and could point to Breckenridge, Bend, San Francisco. Now the map has become a wonderful learning tool that I had never intended.
Every night after I read Janyo her mandatory four books and then snuggle, and after Brady plays dinosaurs with Teigue, reads him his three books and tells him a story or two, it is then my turn to go into Teigue's room and tell him a story about a state. There are a few rules:
The story must be about a state that he hasn't been to and must include one bad guy with Teigue saving the day (his rules).
Before the story is told he must tell me the states between here and there (my rule).
Basically if he wants to hear about Florida he must tell me that he has to go through California, Arizona, New Mexico, Texas, Louisiana, Mississippi and Alabama to get there. He now knows all those states because, for about a week, he only wanted to hear stories about scorpions. The only place that I know that has a lot of scorpions is Florida. Each night he had to walk across these states to get to his scorpion story.
I love this little bonding moment that we have every night, although I sometimes find it hard to come up with stories on the spot. It is helpful that I have visited most of the states so I can sort of relate the story to the actual state. I even busted out my pictures from my cross country trip that I took 14 years ago! with my wonderful friend Lisa. The kids thought my outfits were pretty silly- Mommy, why do you have sun glasses on top of your glasses? Well you see, I needed sunglasses and I wore glasses for driving then. You look silly! Yes, we heard that a lot... In addition to seeing how silly their mommy looked at 20 years old, they were also able to see what some of the states looked like and now want to go to a few- Hawaii in the near future, Yellowstone and Glacier when someone develops a biodiesel Winnebago type thing. Brady and I agree that a road trip with two kids in a normal car would be slightly coo coo. Or it could be fun. Either way, our kids will get to see most of (if not all) the states by the time they are teenagers.





